First date means two people who have love relation or the relationship is being toward to love go outside and sharing time.  


 
   In America, people start dating from junior high school in generally. 
Some couples in America are dating as a group date first because parents
don’t allow to do solo date.  The parents decide the age that children can do solo date.  Someone Erika knows in high school dated with another couples about 6 months because her parents didn’t allow to do solo date. In the case of solo date, couples go to dinner and watch movie in the first date in generally.




    When they do first date, they think about what they want to do in the first date.  For example, men may think about they should be a gentleman during first date. I think this is going to be a myth because it is a social thinks what you should do during first date.  The word “date” is a symbol of the first date. In America, date means the step to be a pair of lovers.  But in Japan, they use this word not only to be a pair of lovers but also for lovers. Therefore, the difference behind the word “Date” can be a symbol. 


    I think the first date is a rite of passage for parents and it is also ritualization.  For parents, the first date of their children is much important. They may ask children about their partner and sometimes they try to protect them from a danger.   At the same time, they can feel children’s grows.  I think it is a ritualization because the first date doesn’t have a strict order and it is more flexibility.  I will put it into transition stage because it is not restricted that couples who are dating are going to get married.



    The first date is a ritualization and it has a symbol and myth. And it is a rite of passage for parents.




Source



Erika


ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/デート


 
Shihomi Kawai
10/13/2013 05:35:23 pm

I didn't know that the parents can decide how old is OK to go to date by solo. It's interesting. Is it for girl, boy, or both? Also when people have a boyfriend or girlfriend, do they tell it their parents? I enjoyed your blog!

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Caitlyn Phillips
10/14/2013 02:11:47 pm

I agree with all of this. I would like to add that the age a person starts dating depends on the person and the parents. Many young people begin to "date" at age 12, however, many parents do not allow dating until high school. It is also the individuals choice. There are some people who wait to date until college as well.

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Takuya Koizumi
10/14/2013 05:28:50 pm

I was really enjoy reading your blog because I'm curious about first date in the USA. I have a question for you. Are USA date and Japanese date exactly same kind? Do they do same thing during the date?

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Russell Fauss
10/15/2013 04:25:15 am

Good information, Yume. I wonder, though, how the word "date" can be a symbol of dating. Can you think of other symbols? Also, please describe myths of the first date in some detail. Isn't this a RoP (or part of one) for the dating children? Is it a ritual, or ritualization, or neither, and why?

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Sayuri
10/15/2013 03:28:07 pm

I think the idea that first dates are rites of passages for parents is interesting. I could understand that the myth is related to social thoughts but I’m not sure why the word “Date” is symbol?

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Toshinori
10/15/2013 04:14:22 pm

I think you did well. You talked about dating in the U.S. deeply and clearly. I think American one and Japanese one are really similar. Im not sure the group date is common in Japan for their first dating?

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Hiroto Sakata
10/16/2013 12:23:59 pm

I was surprised because parents can decide the age that children can do solo date. If my parents tell me so, I will not follow them. Is it same in Japan? Do parents decide the age about it?

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