Returning on
Returning on means repaying an obligation, but on is defined as an unpayable thing. There is no such word in English, but actions based on it
surely exist in the U.S. When someone helps you, and you feel grateful to them, at that time you will get on simultaneously. On is a feeling that you will get when you feel grateful toward someone who helped you. I think that life
management for parents includes visiting, checking their parents’ bank account, and Lifealert is one type of returning on.
What people do for returning on is similar to one in Japan. People get older, know what their parents experienced (it is usually something hard), and they have come to want to do something for them because of your appreciation toward them, for example, sometimes grandparents visit their daughter or son’s home to have fun, or conversely, parents or kids (or both) go visit grandparents’ home to please them. When parents visit them, they clean
their parents’ house up or cook for them. Some grandparents are invited to home for dinner from their big child or have dinner with them at a restaurant. They enjoy it because they can see their child and their grandchild. Some parents check grandparents’ bank account not to spend much money, or Lifealert, which is an emergency response and help the elderly contact emergency services, is other way of returning on.
The symbol of this activity is actions, such as life managements I mentioned because not only they are just for pleasing or helping them, but also on which is not visible is lying in them. This symbol is only from parents to their parents, and it is a personal symbol for parents. I could not find any myths about this.
It is telling children how important your parents are and to be proud of them and appreciate them. I believe that it is ritualization because although it has some functions of a ritual and less happens, there is no specific time to do it, roles, and orders in this ritual, and it is flexible. There are many ways of doing this, and it is really depend on your family background.